In modern times, many people who get married have done so before. Whether its divorcees or widows, there are nearly as many couples tying the knot for the second time as there are the first.
In the past there have been many restrictions on couples entering a second marriage, but today the climate is a little more relaxed. That said, there are certain rules, regulations, requirements and things to think about that you need to be aware of.
You can re-marry an unlimited amount of times within the UK so long as you can prove that your previous marriage has come to a legal end. Therefore, you will need to supply either a death certificate of your former partner or decree absolute certificate, depending upon whether you are widowed or legally divorced.
Dependent upon your situation, you may also have to think carefully about any children involved as a result of either partner’s previous relationships when entering into a second marriage.. Who is/will be the children’s legal guardians, the surname that they will take, their involvement in the day and how to will inform them of your plans will all need to be given careful thought. It is also wise to have a new will drawn up to ensure that any inheritance is distributed exactly as you wish.
Generally a second marriage wedding is less elaborate than that of first-timers and as such tends to be less expensive. Brides do not always wear white, and the parents do not tend to put forward such a substantial financial contribution. That said, the marriage can follow whatever path you choose - your imagination is your only limit.
Civil Ceremony Second Marriages
A Civil Ceremony, sometimes followed by a blessing, is the most popular option when one partner has been previously married.
A Civil Ceremony has no religious content at all, though is still just as romantic and meaningful as a religious ceremony but without the complications. The blessing is a religious service of prayer and dedication, and it is very common for a Minister to agree to perform the blessing to those entering a second marriage as, when combined with a Civil Ceremony, it is often viewed as an appropriate half-way house.
Anglican Church Second Marriages
speak to a number of different ministers before finding a willing volunteer.
Other religions vary in their attitudes to ‘second timers’, so before discounting this option completely, it is wise to speak to the officiant early on to clarify their standing on second marriages - they will be more than happy to discuss any queries or concerns with you.
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