GIFT LISTS

·         Small Items: Gift lists are normally crammed full of smaller price items. This ensures that there's something that every guest can afford, but can often lead to couples adding things for the sake of it. These days, with many couples having lived together for some time before tying the knot, the chance of them needing a brand new dinner service is slim, but such items are still the mainstay of gift lists. If there's only one thing you really want, a flatscreen TV for example, then a gift list is not for you. 

Having read the above points, you have probably come to the same conclusion as us, that unless you have a really good reason for not doing so, then a professionally managed gift list is the most sensible way forward. That said, if you are set on managing your own then don’t let us put you off – it will be hard work and can become a little complex but it is also fun and if done correctly can achieve the results you want. Make sure that you, or whoever is managing the list, keeps track of everything, and we mean everything – the last thing you want is two of every item just because your future mummy-in-law has lost some of her paperwork!

For those of you who are set on using a professional service to manage the gift, make sure that you shop around to choose the best provider for your needs:

• Certain exclusive outlets will charge a consultation fee although most are free.
• Some shops will offer discounts or incentives whilst others won’t.
• Some are specialist in a particular field and can provide a much greater choice.
• Price can vary greatly so get an idea of price comparisons before you start – treat it as if it were your cash you were spending.
• Most importantly, some outlets are well established and will still be in operation when you get married and won’t have run off with all your cash – make sure you get a reputable supplier!