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Role, Responsibilities & Father of the Bride Duties

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The Father of the Bride is the lucky man who's watched his little girl grow up, much quicker than he could ever imagine, and turn into a beautiful young woman that he is proud and honoured to call his daughter (we must stop, we're welling up!). This article takes a closer look at the role, responsibilities and Father of the Bride duties they must perform on, before and after the big day.



The Father of the Bride

The role of the Father of the Bride should, as you might have guessed, be taken up by the Bride’s father, although it is not uncommon for another ‘fatherly figure’ to fill the void should that role be vacant for one reason or another. Whether it is the Bride’s actual father or a suitable replacement, the characteristics of any great Father of the Bride are compassion, dignity, kindness, understanding and love – and a bit of money would go astray either!



Main Father of the Bride Duties 

When it come down to Father of the Bride duties and responsibilities, there is more to do than simply putting writing out and endless stream of cheques – although it might not seem like it at this precise moment in time! The responsibilities that the Father of the Bride will undertake will differ greatly from wedding to wedding, but traditionally they will carry out eight main Father of the Bride duties:

Weddingsday Liaising with their daughter and her partner to see how they wish to go about funding the wedding and offering to pay for certain items (our Wedding Who Pays? article outlines the typical costs that may fall your way)
Weddingsday Travelling with the Bride to the wedding ceremony.
Weddingsday Accompanying the Bride down the aisle.
Weddingsday If necessary, travelling with the Bride’s Mother from the ceremony venue to the reception venue.
Weddingsday Standing in the receiving line alongside the Bride.
Weddingsday Making the first of the wedding speeches (for detailed help and advice on speeches, toasts, jokes and quotes, be sure to check out our dedicated Father of the Bride speech articles).
Weddingsday As part of the ‘first dance’, dancing with the Bride’s mother when invited onto the floor.
Weddingsday Sharing a father-daughter dance at the wedding reception to a meaningful song chosen together.
Optional Father of the Bride Duties 

Alongside the traditional Father of the Bride duties, dads should also be forthcoming with offers of help at every stage (but know when to back away!) and the following duties are ideal for those who want to help out a little more:


Weddingsday Ringing around potential product/service suppliers to wade out the chaff.


Weddingsday Keeping the Bride’s mother in tow!


Weddingsday Helping with menial chores such as writing out addresses or blowing up balloons – ooh the fun of it!


Weddingsday Acting as a calming influence to the Bride-to-be prior to the big day.


Weddingsday Putting together directions and maps for the guests.


Weddingsday Acting as a source of advice – you're wise (well you're old anyway), you've been there before (although you probably can’t or don’t want to remember), and you may even have a few weird and wonderful ideas (well maybe just weird) – but you should volunteer them anyway, you just never know!


Weddingsday Being fully aware of the day’s timetable and make sure that everyone is kept on their toes.


Weddingsday Making sure that everyone is OK for drinks.


Weddingsday Being one of the last to leave on the night, making sure that everyone gets away all right and that all bills have been settled up (possibly in conjunction with the Groom’s father).



It’s not easy being a good Father of the Bride, but then again it’s not easy being a good father. As you get old there are some memories that will stay with you forever - the first time your daughter uttered the word ‘dada’, the first time you see her in her wedding dress and the time that she says ‘thanks Dad – we couldn’t have done it without you’. Hard work and expensive it may be, but it’s worth it.



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