ENGAGEMENT PARTIES

Whilst you can’t bank on gifts and presents, or even offers of contributions from parents, if they are forthcoming make sure you show your appreciation.

Thank-you cards are great for everyone - both parents and people giving engagement presents. If you haven’t set the date when the presents initially come in, you could send thank-you cards and include a ‘keep the date card’. This lets people know when you are planning your Big Day and helps to make sure people who you are sure you will invite keep the date free. For parents offering contributions or for friends or relatives who have helped to organise the engagement party, a bunch of flowers or a bottle of wine is a good idea - they need not cost the earth, they just shown how much you appreciate all their efforts.

Parties, romantic meals for two or a get-together for the parents round a good bottle of wine are all well and good, but what about something a little more special?

‘Engagement Pictures’ are quite popular in other parts of the world and are spreading to the UK slowly but surely. It basically involves the use of a skilled photographer for an hour or so who will take a number of photographs of the happy couple shortly after the engagement – the images can then be bought and framed to make a lasting memory or for a gift to parents and close relatives. Whilst they can be expensive, they are a beautiful way of capturing the moment.

Days out, trips away and more can be used as an alternative to the traditional engagement party and we have several articles that outline potential activites. The best place if you're looking for inspiration is to check out our 'How to Celebrate' articles in the 'Stag & Hen Night' section and steal some of the ideas there!